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Common Challenges Interfaith Couples Would Go Through

By Amy Butler


They say that loving means always accepting the flaws of that person, being able to live with and loving the bad along with the good sides. They also say that be open to the differences and accept it regardless. However, there are differences that still are quite to live with like and adjust to especially when it can affect the important people surrounding the couple. A good example on situations like this would be a Jewish that fell in love with a person that has a different religion. Imagine how much of a challenge that can be to both parties but even so there have been Jewish and interfaith wedding Orange County that were established for strong couples that chooses to fight for their love and set aside the hate they may get.

Marriages like this especially for Jewish is really rare and there were almost no individual that would dare to possibly done this. There were some beliefs that actually made it a rule to not marry someone who has different religion. And this perceptions became the reason why there is a huge gap in between people and all the religions that are present. But, as time passed by, people gradually learned to accept such fact that loving is not bad.

But even with these obvious changes in culture, there still are conflicts that can happen and couple may still have their relationship on bricks because of this. Mostly, deep conversation about this stuff are not done and each side of story is never heard. And, maybe it is the exact reason why other families are still not open in such interfaith marriages.

The most common problem that could arise before the wedding would always be the response and reaction of parents, siblings and other family members. True enough that other parents would try to leave such thing on decision of both couples. But, what if these families are those who are still not that open with the fact that interfaith binding are now a thing.

Other times, the only solution that can be thought of is conversion of faith. This is insisted to the future spouse and this actually is not even appropriate knowing that each person is born with a right to stand on religion of their choice. This will only add fuel to pressure the future spouse would feel and besides this is really something personal to begin with.

And conversion of such belief is also not easy to process and take for the person. Imagine suddenly changing the ways and means of praying. Imaging being new to the process and culture. And sometime, faith is what people held on to when they have really no one to talk to, imagine suddenly changing that before or after the marriage. It is not that easy.

This is where communication is essential because that is not the only problem that could happen on the entire life as a married couple. Bearing a child and trying to decide what religion they would be taking can be tough too. Such things are supposed to get discussed beforehand in a manner that both sides are being listened to and not neglected.

There also are other couples that will try to introduce kids to both religion culture. Showing what are the difference and allowing them to not feel any intimidation at all because sometimes this kind of issue would all boil down and affect kids. This should never be the case.

It is true that something like this set up are difficult. But, the most important thing is that building the respect and try to keep an open mind because this is the attitude that would help save the marriage. This goes to all the differences between couple, not just religion.




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