Getting the attention of a guy that you're interested in shouldn't require a skillfully laid out plan. Men don't need to be a mystery to you and getting the attention of any man you desire requires only a few key pieces of knowledge. It doesn't matter how handsome he is, how popular he is or even if you think that there is no way that he will be attracted to you. Once you understand how men process attraction and what will draw him in, it won't even matter if there is a model hitting on him. You will be the one talking to him at the end of the night.
While it is unfortunate that men and women don't think alike, if it was simple then there would be no challenge. Many women make the mistake of trying to give a man the same signals or treatment that they desire. Men are simply wired differently and they feel attraction on a different level. Becoming friends might be easy but if you are hoping to ignite romantic feelings that lead to a relationship then you must understand how to make him look at you differently and feel differently around you than he does with any other woman.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
While it is unfortunate that men and women don't think alike, if it was simple then there would be no challenge. Many women make the mistake of trying to give a man the same signals or treatment that they desire. Men are simply wired differently and they feel attraction on a different level. Becoming friends might be easy but if you are hoping to ignite romantic feelings that lead to a relationship then you must understand how to make him look at you differently and feel differently around you than he does with any other woman.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
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